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Getting Baptised

 

S. Mary the Virgin, Rowner
Gosport, Hampshire

 

Getting Baptised

 

The tradition of Christian Baptism (or Christening) is as old as the Church, and is the first of the ‘Sacraments’ (signs of Christ’s love for us). In emergency, anyone can baptise someone, but you have chosen to enquire about a priest baptising you, or your child or children. The rite of Baptism is important, as it involves you in making solemn Promises in Church, which you should take seriously. We will prepare you for the Baptism service, and talk through the promises with you, so that you can understand their meaning and their importance.

Baptism is the beginning of the Christian journey of faith, and we trust that God will strengthen you in that journey. Obviously you as a family have to agree to a baptism taking place, as well as agree how the baptised’s Christian journey will take shape. We, as a church locally, will help you and nurture you on the way, but, at the end of the day, the prime responsibility for that is yours. To help you understand this, the opening words of the service put it beautifully:

The Church receives these children with joy. Today we are trusting God for their growth in faith. Will you pray for them, draw them by your example into the community of faith and walk with them in the way of Christ?
In baptism these children begin their journey in faith. You speak for them today. Will you care for them, and help them to take their place within the life and worship of Christ’s Church?

To those questions, parents and godparents are invited to respond:

With the help of God, we will.

To ensure that you understand this level of commitment and are willing to make these promises clearly and with true feeling, we invite you to worship with us as you lead up to the service of Baptism, and to continue in this pattern after the big day. You will promise to pray with them, worship with them, and encourage them towards the next sacrament, which is the receiving of Holy Communion.

When will the Service take place?

We normally have services twice a month, and you should enquire about available dates in a few months’ time. The time of the service is 12 noon on a Sunday.

How much does it cost?

Not a lot, really. We ask for a contribution of £25 per family from which candidates come. This pays for the costs of the service and the certificates which are given to each person baptised, and to their godparents, reminding them of their responsibilities. We also ask the congregation on the day to make a donation to the parish for the upkeep of the building for future generations being baptised in Rowner.

Who needs to be Baptised?

Obviously, if you are going to be making baptismal promises on behalf of your child, then you need to have been baptised yourself. If you have not, please arrange with the Rector to be baptised, either at the same service, or separately, if you would rather. The same goes for Godparents (and you can have up to 4 for each child being baptised).

What do I do next?

First, come to church on a Sunday to enjoy and participate in the worship (our main Service is at 10am). You can then enquire about Baptism, and ask questions; but to book the Baptism, you need to come to the Church Office on a Monday evening at 6pm.

We look forward to meeting you and sharing in your celebration!


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St Mary the Virgin, 174 Rowner Lane, Rowner, Gosport, Hants PO13 9SU
Rectory telephone: 023 9258 1834
email: stmrowner174@btinternet.com
charity registration number 1134344